S11.11 | Why Did God Allow This? | Finding Faith in Suffering and Trauma

 
 

Have you ever found yourself asking, “Why did God allow this?” Whether you’re walking through grief, trauma, or unanswered prayers, this question can weigh heavy on your heart. In this episode of Affirming Truths, Christian Mental Health Coach Carla Arges reminds us that it’s okay to wrestle with God, but we don’t have to stay stuck in the “why.”

Through Scripture, encouragement, and her own experiences, Carla explores how God’s character never changes—even in suffering—and how shifting from “Why, God?” to “Where is God in this?” can bring peace, perspective, and healing. If you’ve ever felt buried by pain, this conversation will help you lean into trust and see God’s goodness in the midst of struggle.


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3 Key Takeaways from This Episode

  1. It’s Okay to Ask Why. Questioning God does not mean your faith is weak. Lament is a biblical practice that draws us closer to Him.

  2. God’s Character Doesn’t Change in Suffering. He remains sovereign, present, and redeeming—even when life feels unbearable.

  3. Shift the Question. Instead of only asking “Why did God allow this?”, invite God to show you “Where is He in this?” and how He is working for your good.

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Resources:

5 Steps to Building Resiliency

Affirming Truths Facebook Community

Rahab Bible Study Guide

5 Tips for Overcoming a Negative Body Image

Who You Say I Am Biblical Affirmation Cards

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S11.BONUS | Finding God’s Goodness After Suicide and Loss with Joy Johnson